The person who used to adore and worship you now fluctuates between needing you desperately and devaluing you.

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Have you ever had a situation that goes something like this?

: You meet someone and it feels like the stars align.

This person is so into you and lavishes you with attention, romance and gifts.

The relationship moves very quickly and it feels like you have met "the one." Months down the road when things have settled in comfortably, things start to change.

If this situation sounds similar to something you have experienced, you may be or may have dated someone with narcissistic tendencies. They are madly in love with you right off the bat and the relationship moves very quickly: People with narcissistic tendencies use fantasy like projections when picking a mate.

Usually it takes a certain amount of time to fall in love with someone.

Sure, you can feel chemistry and a connection with someone but to fall in love with who a person truly is (flaws and all) takes some time.

A person with narcissistic tendencies loves the intense feelings and the attention.

Sadly, their intense interest in you is more so about them and their needs than it is about you. They fluctuate between adoring you and devaluing you: People with narcissistic tendencies are very hot and cold.

They can be mean and critical one second and then sweet and loving the next.

This becomes very confusing because you are still seeing glimpses of the wonderful person you first fell in love with but you are also getting to see another side that makes you feel bad about yourself.3.